Saturday, December 18, 2010

2011.....Be Prepared

Our son will be 2 in 2011........I can count on one hand how many times you saw him in 2010......you're requesting a dna test because you don't wanna pay child support? Lawd how many appointments did I set in 2009 for you not to show up.....you wait a damn year and a half later to want one? Where is the logic in that? I've laughed myself silly. We get the test done confirm that he's your's then what? What happens after that? LOL! Are you serious? That would explain why they're trying to lock you up....I had nothing to do with that, because I don't care if you're in his life or not. I stopped caring when you turned your back on your sick child. I don't talk negatively about you to him because you don't exist. You nor your pathetic family haven't come into my thoughts until I saw that the Attorney General is getting ready to go after you and saw that you requested the test. I pray nothing but God's mercy upon you, because once I get done, Lawd when I get done, lol. Not a threat but a promised guarantee...better bring your A game in 2011 because your sorriness just got old......I'm glad I know where my help comes from :)

2 comments:

  1. WOW I GUESS YOU DO UNDERSTAND. SO I'll just GET A BLOG AND SPEAK ABOUT HIM WITHOUT USING HIS NAME. Lol .IT'S PRETTY CLEAR YOU KNOW THE ANGER THAT DERIVES IN THIS TYPE OF SITUATION. THIS TIME IT'S JUST YOUR HOMEBOY. THE DIFFERENCE IN MY SITUATION IS I'VE HELD AN OPEN DOOR POLICY ONLY FOR HIM TO WALK IN THIS MAY AND THEN STILL SCREW IT UP. WAIT TIL THE FATHER STARTS APOLOGIZING FOR EVERYTHING, DO ONE GOOD THING, YOU WORK TO HELP YOUT CHILD ADJUST AND THEN EVERY TIME HE SHOULD SHOW HE DOESNT. ALL YOU STATED IN HERE IS WHAT THE FIRST 5 YEARS OF MY CHILD'S LIFE. I CONSTANTLY TRY TO TAKE THE HIGH ROAD OR MAKE EXCUSES FOR HIM BECAUSE I WANT HER TO GROW UP HEALTHY. SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT YOU REALLY DO UNDERSTAND, I WOULDN'T WISH THAT ON ANYBODY OR ANY CHILD. WE JUST GOT TO STAY PRAYED UP.

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  2. Once you learn how to channel the anger, you gain control over it. I've had the open door, when I lived in Tampa, he would be on his way for hours to pick him up and never show up. And he was right there in Tampa too. His problem was "Well if we can't be together then I don't wanna be in his life"....his exact words, lol. Its just the funniest thing ever to me. Yeah I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy, but in it it truly has made me stronger. So don't be sorry for me because I'm not, I got the greatest gift, and that's my son, while I don't know the first thing about being a man, I'm using the tools that God has been so gracious to bless me with. Yes, prayed up and the entire armor is the way to go!

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